A note before you start: this isn't an interrogation script. Spread these across your conversations and meetings, front-load the deal-breakers (deen, children, relocation, money), and pay as much attention to how they answer as to what they say. The Prophet ﷺ told us to choose for deen and character — these questions exist to reveal both. For guidance on the process itself, read our guide to asking questions the halal way.
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